Stop waiting for a sign; you are the sign.
Helping you trust yourself fully, make decisions in love with clarity, and create a relationship that feels aligned and deeply fulfilling.
You’re not actually looking for a better relationship.
You’re looking for the version of you that trusts herself fully - without question.
You’ve tried therapy. You’ve journaled, meditated, and done the affirmations. You’ve dissected every text with your best friend.
And yet, here you are - still feeling stuck, still second guessing, still wondering whether you should stay or go.
Nature Knows. So Do You. It’s Time to Listen.
Nature doesn’t look around looking for validation before growing. It doesn’t question whether it deserves to bloom. It just knows.
You are nature. You have that same knowing inside you. But trauma, conditioning, and emotional triggers have piled up, making it hard to hear. If making decisions that don’t follow the “should”s make your heart race and stomach sink, that’s not a mindset thing. That’s your nervous system running the show.
This work isn’t about forcing yourself to be more confident or less attached. It’s about reconnecting with the part of you that never needed fixing in the first place - the part of you that already knows what to do.
Let’s be real.
You’re tired of outsourcing your decisions just to end up even more confused.
This is where I come in.
I help women who overthink in dating and relationships. Women who want to feel confident about their decisions - but keep looping in the same patterns of confusion, self-doubt, and emotional chaos.
It’s time to stop bending yourself into shapes that were never meant for you.
Here’s what we do together:
𖤓 Reconnect with the real you - beyond the overthinking, people-pleasing, and second-guessing.
𖥧 Get crystal clear on what you actually want - so your love life reflects you, not what you think you “should” want.
ᨒ Learn how to communicate without feeling like you’re walking on eggshells.
𖠰 Stop feeling like your emotions are too much - and start using them as your guide.
𖡼 Break the cycle of chasing conditional love and become your own home.
Hey Goddess - I’m Alex.
A self-trust in love coach who uses the patterns in nature as her guide. ☾𖤓
For most of my life, I trusted others more than I trusted myself.
It’s what kept me stuck in relationships that were never truly meant for me. But the real problem was the emotional chaos, exhaustion, and confusion that came from ignoring my own inner knowing.
Overthinking every decision. Asking 10 different people for advice. Running in circles - only to end up more unsure than before.
It wasn’t until I reconnected with myself - beyond the noise, beyond the conditioning - that everything changed. I left behind relationships that drained me and found my soulmate.
This isn’t about finding them. It’s about finding you. The version of you that listens to herself, no matter what others say, and makes deeply aligned decisions in love - even if it feels scary because you have a unshakeable knowing that it’s right for you.
And why nature? Because, Goddess, you are nature. Nature is our ultimate teacher and guide. Be prepared for nature metaphors.
𖠰 How We Work Together ᨒ
Get Your Sh*t Together Session
A 90 Minute 1:1 Private Intensive
A powerful deep-dive to cut through the noise and make clear, aligned decisions in love. No drawn-out coaching - just clarity and real, long-lasting shifts.
A Tailored Private Mentorship
By Invitation / Request Only.
If long-term support is right for you, we’ll co-create a coaching plan tailored to your needs.
Fill out Contact form or DM me @alignedrelationshipcoaching on Instagram.
A Complimentary Self-Trust Guide
This is about hearing yourself without the noise by building a deeper, more intimate relationship with yourself.
P.S. We don’t do boring sh*t here. Get ready to date yourself & be your own soulmate, Goddess. 𖤓
What Women Are Saying
Anna Lovatis
“Alexandra has such a unique style of coaching. She is so honest & will truly speak things how they really are about your current situation and path. It will allow you to see things in a new perspective & light, so that you can move forward on your path with confidence, fulfillment & true alignment. She is such a beautiful soul, her expertise lies in so many areas; whether it is in relationships or to guide you back home to yourself, her work inspires to help shift the collective . . . she is so authentic & it inspires you to be the same as well.”
Kirsten Mah
“Alexandra did an amazing job of holding space for me as I re-wired my mindset around relationships and my worth. Her support gave me the strength to navigate my way out of an unhealthy relationship. Since working with her, I’m happy to report that I’ve never settled for anything less than AMAZING connections!”
Rachel Elizabeth
“Alex is a fabulous coach and helped me reframe many of my blocks. She has a special way of being able to connect with you on a level that helps really allow you to feel what you need to but also process what is actually in your way. Once of my favorite techniques working with Alex is going through EFT sessions. Her delivery of this technique really taps into what you are processing and afterwards provides the support for anything that comes up through the session.”
Sarah S.
“honestly, the realization that my anxiety stems from confusing myself with so much noise and being concerned about being unsafe was a massive realization, and being able to trust [my] intuition has felt really relieving”
Adwoa Shanti
“[My] biggest takeaway was the permission to stand up for myself regardless of how much it scares me or pushes away others. Your energy is very soft and inviting which allows space to be vulnerable in session.”
Sarah S.